Finding Your Way Home
A Post-Traumatic Growth Coaching Path For Women
Through Mindful Awareness and the Science of Healing
I guide women from surviving to thriving β through Post-Traumatic Growth, illness, and major life transitions. Through my own healing and recovery, I learned the wisdom of interweaving mindful awareness with the science of healing. Together they became medicine for my nervous systemπ
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My healing journey gradually taught me that safety begins in the nervous system, and that healing is less about fixing ourselves and more about softly reconnecting with who we already are.
βShe has a profound ability to make you feel seen and heard, even amidst great struggle.β
β Isabel Mata, Writer and Mindfulness teacher
βBeing truly heard by Esther releases the built-up steam in my life.β
Even on the days I feel 'I don't need this,' her humanity and uniquely skilled guidance help me find more compassion for myself β and I'm discovering a more fully integrated sense of self-awareness, understanding, and acceptance."
β Kathy, Finding Your Way client
"Befriending Your Nervous System"
A phrase I learned from Deb Dana
An invitation to a Vagal Toning Practice
What has helped me most in my healing and recovery has been learning to listen to my vagus nerve with kindnessβa remarkable pathway in continual conversation with our brain.
Over time, I discovered that when my nervous system became more settled, it was easier to return to calm, steadiness, clear thinking, and greater ease throughout the day.
I'd love to share some of these exercises with you in an experiential Vagal Toning session.
We'll explore simple ways to support your nervous system through breath awareness, gentle movement, self-applied touch, and mindful attention.
A time to pause, breathe, and explore simple practices that support greater nervous system balance and ease.
Upcoming πΏ Vagal Toning Session
Please note the date change: This session has been rescheduled from Thursday, July 23 to Thursday, July 30.
Thursday, July 30
11:00 AM β 12:15 PM ET
Online via Zoom
Fee: $25
Fee should never be an obstacle. If cost is a concern, please reach out.
A soothing breath practice I often return to when I need to settle and reground myself π
Left-Nostril Breathing
1. Settle.
Find a comfortable seat or stand with your feet resting on the floor or earth.
2. Find a soft anchor.
Rest your attention on your breath. If that doesn't feel like the right place today, let your hands, your feet, or something pleasant you can see become your anchor.
3. Breathe.
Softly close your right nostril with your thumb or a finger. Breathe in through your left nostril. Slowly exhale through your left nostril. Continue for two or three gentle breaths, or simply pause whenever that feels like enough.
4. Pause and notice.
Take a moment to notice what is here. Warmth. Coolness. Tingling. Softening. Or perhaps no particular sensation at all. There is nothing to fixβonly noticing with kind attention.
5. Carry it with you.
Perhaps you'll remember this practice while waiting in line, before an appointment, or during a busy day. Even two or three breaths can open a little more space to rest.
And sometimes, little by little, that's where the nervous system begins to settle.
βThe gift of healing trauma is that the woundedness becomes a gateway to freedom, healing and love.β
β Tara Brach
Accessibility matters to me.
I hold a small number of sliding-scale openings at any time, and I'm happy to explore options if finances are a concern.
If you'd like to be in touch, there's space for that here β a simple email, or a free Inquiry Call.
The Resource Library
π Finding Your Way weaves trauma-informed mindful awareness practice and healing science β including Interpersonal Neurobiology and Polyvagal Theory βYouβre warmly invited to visit these teachings in the Resource Library.